A Guide to a Perfect Solo Detty December!

Ah, It’s Christmas Again!

The season of twinkling lights, cozy blankets, matching pajamas, and… being asked for the 100th time, “When are you getting married?” If you’re single, you probably know this script all too well. After all, 2024 wasn’t the kindest year for us “single pringles,” and as the festive season approaches, the prospect of dodging nosy questions from well-meaning relatives may already have you rolling your eyes.

But guess what? Spending Christmas alone doesn’t have to feel lonely or incomplete. In fact, it’s the perfect time to flip the script and embrace the joys of celebrating solo. Here’s a fun, heartfelt guide to making your single Christmas one to remember.

Own Your Freedom and Create New Traditions

Being single means no in-laws to impress and no sharing of your Christmas treats—unless you feel like it. Forget the notion that traditions are only for couples and families. You can create your own! Start your day with a feel-good playlist featuring Christmas hits (yes, Feliz Navidad counts) and Afrobeat jams. Cook your favorite meal, whether it’s jollof rice with fried turkey or pepper soup with pounded yam and egusi soup. If you’re not in the mood to cook, splurge on a caterer or order from your favorite Nigerian restaurant.My darling, the economy has nothing on you! Enjoy yourself, and end the day with your favorite Nollywood classic (those movies will make you forget your status). After all, this is your time to shine!

Gift Yourself Something Special

Why wait for someone else to surprise you? This Christmas, become your own Santa. Treat yourself to that outfit you’ve been eyeing online, a pair of those Aso Oke sneakers trending on Instagram, designer kicks, or the gadget you’ve been screenshotting all year. Wrap it up with a bow and unwrap it on Christmas morning. Self-love never goes out of style.

 Find Festive Fun in Your Community

If sitting home alone doesn’t feel festive enough, step out and explore your area. Attend a carol service, volunteer at an orphanage, or check online for shows to attend in your area. It’s a fantastic way to spread cheer and keep your heart full.

Netflix, Chill, and Unapologetically Binge

Make it a movie marathon day(MovieHathon). Kudos to our Nollywood, they’ve blessed us with back-to-back holiday movies to keep us entertained. And if you’re one of those who say, “I don’t watch Nollywood,” Hollywood has plenty of options for you too. Throw in some popcorn, dim the lights, and create the ultimate movie-night vibe. Trust me, there’s a lot of content to dive into. And, of course, step it down with a chilled bottle of Chapman or water, if you’re balling on a budget.

Reflect, Recharge, and Plan

Christmas is not just about the festivities; it’s also a time for reflection. Look back at the wins and lessons from 2024, pen down your dreams for 2025, and appreciate the beauty of your journey. Being single is not a flaw—it’s a stage, and it’s uniquely yours.

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